If you get a match, send that message! You came here to meet people so keep the conversation going. People put way too much pressure on a Like, but you’re much better off chancing it and seeing where it goes.įollow up – Don’t be a flake. You make someone feel good, you’ll have a chat, you might make a new friend, they may be the love of your life. Like anyone and everyone – Sending a Like costs nothing. A profile pic that works well will be a game changer. Don’t use a group picture, no sunglasses and don’t use a filter that covers any part of your face. Make your profile pic work for you – Most Likes happen just because of that one picture. What advice would you give to a woman going on HER for the first time? Read on below to see Robyn’s guide to online dating, and head over to our interview with the founder to learn more about what it takes to run a gay empire. Whether you’re a baby gay who has never dated someone of the same sex before, or you’re simply new to the online dating game, one piece of advice remains the same: have fun, relax and just be yourself. In honor of National Coming Out Day, we spoke to Robyn Exton – founder of HER, the world’s largest dating app for queer women – to put together a guide to online dating.